In the music video called "Doo Wop" By Lauryn Hill the cinematography and lyrics illustrates femininity and masculinity. The video shows to different error of times. 1960s and the 1990s showing the contrasts of new technology to different clothes but the same social issues. Women wearing tight clothes to attract the men and the men treating them like trash. 30 years of the same cycle. Women not giving themselves some respect so the man feel it's easy so the women give it up easy. She conveys this in the video by showing women dancing in tight clothes and men approaching the women and grinding on them showing easy access. Then they show the relationship and the women in the bedroom alone as watch the man leave them in both errors. We keep repeating history not changing it. "Don't be a hard rock when you are really a gem. Baby girl, respect is just minimum. Niggas fucked up and you still defending ' em." It starts with you when you say no and say yes to yourself because when you break the cycle the man will show respect. The man should be on putting their best behavior to attract you. When they start disrespecting you then it's time to run not stay in the madness because he has to be done with you. Society has that man have to ask the women out and than continue the relationship to follow up with asking woman hand in marriage but what about the women making that decision. The world is set for man but when you start with yourself and respecting yourself than that little deed can start something new. Life changing to other girls ahead of us.